It’s hard, but it isn’t a crisis

Nothing has blown up and nobody is talking about programs. But home is tense more often than it isn’t, the same arguments keep coming back, and you’re starting to wonder whether this is a phase or the beginning of something. You don’t have to wait for a crisis. The earlier you change how you lead, the less there usually is to undo. A good place to start is the free parent inventory, which walks you through the questions I ask every family. If you’d rather talk it through, the Before You Decide session is built for this too.